In a heartfelt interview, veteran Yoruba actress Lola Idije opened up about the daunting realities of single parenthood, sharing that it is one of the toughest journeys a woman can undertake.
The Nollywood star shed light on the immense financial and emotional challenges that come with raising children on one’s own, from covering school fees to ensuring daily meals are on the table.
Idije expressed her frustration with the promises of support often made by friends and family, which frequently go unfulfilled when it matters most. “Single mothers often find themselves carrying the weight alone,” she lamented, emphasizing the isolation that can accompany this role.
Addressing the complexities of relationships, especially for women in the entertainment industry, Idije criticized the casual attitudes some men adopt. She revealed that many men treat the pursuit of a woman’s affection like a game, even betting on who can win her heart. The actress highlighted a troubling stereotype where men underestimate actresses, thinking they can simply buy their attention with money—sometimes as little as ₦500,000.
These degrading perceptions, she noted, can be deeply hurtful. Idije urged women to be cautious with their trust, warning that betrayal often comes from those expected to provide support.
Despite these hurdles, Lola Idije commended the resilience, sacrifice, and determination of single mothers. She acknowledged the harsh judgments society places on women, particularly those in the entertainment field, yet praised their unwavering commitment to their children’s well-being.
Concluding her poignant message, she said, “Life may not always be easy, but with determination and faith, women can surmount even the most formidable challenges and raise their children successfully.”
Idije’s insights serve as a reminder of the strength and courage that single mothers embody, navigating life’s trials with grace and perseverance.
